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{The Ordinary Moments} #9: Deadline voodoo

3/9/2014

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Well. What a difference a week makes. Last week we were back at my parents’, celebrating my granny’s 80th and feasting on some good old dirt. And this week?

This week has been The Week of The Flu. For all three of us. At the same time.

I can’t even begin to describe how awful it’s been. Oh go on then, indulge me in a proper moan: it’s been hack up half a lung every five minutes, hurts to move your eyeballs, weep into your already sodden tissues with self-pity kind of awful. 5 days of utterly awful (and counting).

We’ve made half-hearted attempts at playing, but really all any of us wants to do is mong in front of the TV. We have watched hours of cartoons. At least in that sense both Ms have looked as though all their Christmases have come at once.

Everything else has gone out of the window: dinner has been eaten at a different time every night, the dust bunnies are so numerous they could form an independent republic, and despite having just taken a holiday work hasn’t had a look-in.

And therein lies the problem. I’m freelance. I have not one, not two, but three deadlines scheduled for next week. And no matter how awful I feel, I can’t call in sick and hope someone else will pick up the flack. There is no one else.

When it’s just the Bean who’s ill it’s just about okay - both Mr P&P and I have enough flexibility in our work schedules to share the responsibility of looking after him. It gets difficult if it drags on, and this winter it’s actually been an infuriatingly ordinary feature of our lives. We were warned that the first winter of nursery (= lurgy factory) would be bad, but as with so many things about parenthood, you don't appreciate the true meaning of it until it hits you in the face like a steam train. But at least we can juggle, which it makes up for the fact that we have no family nearby with whom we can deposit the Bean.

This time, however, we’ve all been completely floored. Until yesterday the words on the screen were practically doing the jig in front of my eyes. Hopeless. Back to bed.

I’ve managed to do a bit today, but it’s still going to take some pretty funky voodoo to meet all the deadlines this week. In four years of freelancing I have never missed a single deadline. Not one. If I want to keep my clients in the long term, missing deadlines is simply not an option.

And in case anyone thinks I can work with the Bean at home (as my office is also at home), think again. He may be a cute assistant, but he just a liiitle too obsessed with the stationary and the gadgets to be truly useful. 
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Silver linings this week:

1. Being poorly has made Little M the cuddliest cuddle-Bean you ever did see. He’s also learned how comforting holding hands is, so for the past few nights I’ve gone to sleep (and been woken up and gone back to sleep. Again. And again) with a tiny little hand clasped in mine. 

2. Mr P&P and I have proven again how good we are in a crisis. We've moaned, sneezed, whinged and spluttered our way through this week, and at times we've practically been in tears, but thank the Gods of Lemsip that we can depend on each other. So now I'm brimming with both phlegm and love. Marvelous. 

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8 Comments
Carin link
3/9/2014 05:29:04 pm

So sorry to hear you've all been ill this week. Strengthening hugs to you. That is the worst. We don't have family nearby either, so I know how awful it can be. Hope you all feel better soon. And those pictures...such cuteness! And I'd be all over the stationery and gadgets too :)

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Eline @ Pasta & Patchwork link
3/11/2014 02:05:40 pm

Thanks for your lovely comment, Carin. I do seriously question our decision to move away at times like these so it's nice to know there are others in a similar position. Things are getting better now though, thankfully!

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seychellesmama link
3/9/2014 11:11:50 pm

oh my gosh you poor things, you've had enough sickness it needs to go away!!!!

That little silver lining you wrote about holding hands has literally melted my heart though, so sweet!

Hope your all feeling better soon and you meet your deadlines xx

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Eline @ Pasta & Patchwork link
3/11/2014 02:07:15 pm

It does need to go away!!! Luckily we're feeling better and I might just make all the deadlines (fingers and toes crossed).
Thanks for your lovely comment! x

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Katie @mummydaddyme link
3/10/2014 10:14:04 am

I can fully sympathise with you as last week we had the exact same. We still don't feel fully right now, it's really taken it out of us. I am sorry you have all been so poorly, and I hope you all feel better soon. x

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Eline @ Pasta & Patchwork link
3/11/2014 02:09:26 pm

Thank you Katie. This winter has been truly awful for bugs, and this last one really got us bad. Things are looking up though, hope you and your girls are back to your old selves soon too x

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3yearsandhome link
3/14/2014 03:21:27 pm

Oh no! I hope you're all feeling much better now. Our house has been cursed with germs too. Nothing gets done, does it?

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Eline @ Pasta 6 Patchwork link
3/17/2014 03:23:59 am

I don't want to jinx it, but I think we're all better now, thanks! You do just have to let everything slide, don't you. If there's one thing I've had to learn since having a kid, it's to lower my standards!

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