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Toddler Bathing Battle Strategies & Review of Paddy's Bathroom Toiletries from Babipur

9/29/2015

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A toddler’s sudden refusal to bathe, despite having always been a water baby. Washing hair, okay, that had never gone entirely smoothly, but now? Not even a quick dunk? Completely, utterly, NO.

And just like that, bathing turned into a battle. Mr P&P and I have never felt comfortable forcing the Bean into something that he doesn’t want to do. It’s therefore not unheard of (not at all, actually) for the Bean’s hair not to see a drop of shampoo for weeks. As long as it gets rinsed, right!?

​When he also went through a bath-hating phase, however, we decided to step up our game and try a few different tactics. A few weeks on bathing is back on the menu most days - hurray! Hair washing still not so much, but you can’t win them all, eh. 
Toddler Bathing Battle Strategies & Review of Paddy's Bathroom Toiletries from Babipur | Pasta & Patchwork Blog
Every child (and their family!) is of course different, but if you find yourself going through similar bathing battles with a your toddler, you might want to try some of these:
Ditch the baby bath

I might think he’s still my baby, but what the Bean wanted was space to be Bean-ish. To ‘swim’, to splash, to have room for ALL the toys at once and then a few more too. The baby bath was demoted to washing basket, into the big tub he jumped, and suddenly it all became an adventure (make it safe by sticking down non-slip bath mats). 

Switch it up

Instead of making bathing always be about the bath, why not try the shower too? If the shower head is scary, just detach it and give them to hose. And teach them to point it INTO the shower, obviously.

Join in

During the worst of the no-bath phase, the only way to get the Bean to have a wash was to have a bath or shower with him. These were lovely moments, actually, especially on bleary, cuddly mornings.

Don’t pile on the pressure

As with so many typical toddler sticking points - eating vegetables, bedtimes, getting dressed - it’s best not to show just how much you care! If they are adamant they won’t bathe, let it go as much as possible - a little dirt doesn’t hurt anyway. Explain why it’d be best if they did have a wash, then leave it up to them to decide.

Give them as much autonomy as possible

I think the biggest issue with bathing, and washing hair in particular, is a fear of water. The Bean hates having water go in his eyes and still immediately breathes in rather than holding his breath when water runs down his face. Unsurprisingly, the sight of the shower head fills him with terror, and he cottoned on pretty quickly to a gently approaching cup too. These days, the best way to get water on his head is to let him do it himself in whatever way he chooses.

Give them a mirror

This, in combination with allowing M to take control, is what made the biggest difference. Being able to see what was happening on his head took away the fear, and in any case what kid doesn't like to make shampoo mohawks?? The one pictured below is from IKEA and attaches to the wall with a very sturdy sucker cup.
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In addition to the above strategies, we gave Paddy’s Bathroom toiletries a try. The lovely people at Babipur sent us a Bean-tailored selection:
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        Stuff for Shiny Hair      |       Stuff for Hands         |          Bubbly Stuff             |           Squirty Stuff
Paddy’s products are natural in the sense that there are none of the usual nasties - SLS, parabens, phthalates or sulphates - and organic ingredients are used where possible. Paddy’s Bathroom also commit to donating 50 cents of every product sold to clean water initiatives in Africa, so as with all of the baby and child items stocked by Babipur, these toiletries are ethical as well as natural. Read on to find out what we thought of them.
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REVIEW: Paddy's Bathroom toiletries from Babipur

What we liked

The colourful packaging - each product has its own bright and distinctive colour scheme, which meant that the Bean quickly learned which product was to be used for what.

The scents - all of Paddy’s bathroom toiletries have fruity scents which are lovely and subtle. The tangerine bubble bath in particular smells great!

The gentleness - I'm always nervous when trying new toiletries with the Bean, because as a baby most commonly available brands made him come out in a rash. Previously I only bought a hypoallergenic, super-gentle and fragrance-free body wash from my local pharmacy, but it was very expensive. It's great that he can now use these fun and scented products without any skin issues. 

The squirtiness - although both the hand wash and the body wash come out as a foam, which is itself quite fun for kids, the body wash shoots out! Just remember to lift the cap on the top first, or you’ll be fighting with it like I was…

The value for money - at first glance these products seem expensive, with prices ranging from £4.49 to £5.50. However, the squirty products last for ages - after nearly two months’ daily use the hand and body washes are only half empty. We’re going through the bubble bath a bit faster as the Bean loves it, but even then you only need a small amount for lots of bubbles.

The toddler appeal - I wouldn't normally go out of my way to buy specific kiddie products, but you have to pick your battles: there is no denying that the Bean having his very own toiletries makes it easier to persuade him into the bath. He even liked washing his hair for a while - I have proof!
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​What we didn’t like

The chummy language on the packaging - I KNOW I sound like an old git by objecting to the wording “glug this lovely stuff into the bath”, but it gets to me. Ho hum.

The pineapple scent of the squirty hand and body wash- for some reason none of us got on with that one! this product comes with a mango scent too, so perhaps that one is nicer. 

The gloopiness of the shampoo - it makes it quite hard to rinse out, which is not what you need when washing hair is already a battle. Just remember to use only a tiny amount.
Overall we liked Paddy's Bathroom toiletries and had a lot of fun trying them, so thank you to Babipur! We still have plenty of the shampoo (funny that) but we love the bubble bath in particular and will definitely be buying more when it runs out. 
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Disclosure: we received a selection of Paddy's Bathroom toiletries for the purpose of this review, but all opinions, words and bath-averse toddlers are my own.

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Moving to Sweden | One month in

9/12/2015

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A whole month, how did that go so fast?! It feels longer to me, possibly because we’re already quite settled in some ways. We’ve cracked a good amount of admin: tax numbers applied for, SIM acquired, nursery place for Bean firmly in our sticky mitts (HOO to the RAY!). There have been bumpy moments in this ride too, of course - moving is always an emotional rollercoaster and this month has been no different. 
LIFESTYLE
It is still warm(ish) here and whenever we have half a chance we get outdoors. I LOVE this - there is so much to go out for. My heart sings every time I breathe in the fresh air, especially now that the smell of autumn is starting to creep in. We go on adventures, my Bean and I, to the sea or the park or the river. My city kid is turning into a water baby, ever so slowly, and I'm so grateful.
Moving to Sweden | One month in: making the most of the summer's final days, upcycled storage ideas and crochet fika! Now on the Pasta & Patchwork blog
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There are other areas that are more challenging. The fruit and vegetables are too expensive, and we can no longer afford eat out, ooh, three times a week. We were very spoiled in Italy, our convenience-based lifestyle has to change; the come-down is hard.

THE BEAN
… is okay. I think. He’s very challenging, and very Two. I can’t be sure whether the being challenging is down to him being Two or caused by all the changes he’s had to deal with recently, but it’s most likely a heady old mixture of both. On a good day he is funny, inquisitive, chatty, cuddly. On a good day makes me feel like the luckiest mum alive. 

On a bad day he is bossy, contrary, unforgiving and clings to me like a monkey. Those days feel endless, as there can never be enough patience. I know that I’m using the Octonauts+blanket+cereal combo too often as a solution, but often I'm just out of ideas. And then I go to bed feeling guilty, sad, and sorry. 
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I think we might both be ready for him to start nursery and find his own place in our new little world.
WORK
The Bean and I are still milking the summer holidays for all their worth, but next Tuesday it’ll be all change: he starts at his new nursery! I start work again a week after that, so fingers crossed he settles in well…
For Mr P&P it’s been full steam ahead since our second week here, so he’s pretty booshed at the moment. I think it’s hard for him, after a full day’s work, to come home to me running away for some time alone and the Bean hurtling towards him for some Daddy time. Still, we’re muddling along and hopefully things will continue to settle down (and balance out!) over the coming months.


HOME
In a word: chaotic. Our boxes arrived from Italy, all 22 of them. There is. Stuff. Everywhere. Fortunately this flat has tons of storage. It’s just that I’m not getting the chance to put everything in said storage, what with the Bean still at home with me! It is amazing to have our things back though, and make this cosy little flat feel more like a home.
When I’ve had a spare second I’ve been doing lots of tiny, upcycled DIY projects for it too, like these washi taped tins and some yarn storage made from chopped up cardboard boxes (well I have to do SOMETHING with them!).
Small Storage | Use empty food tins and washi tape to create pretty storage for pens, paint brushes, etc.
Yarn Storage | Yarn dividers for a bookshelf made from cardboard and washi tape
CULTURE SHOCK
We are frowning, puzzling, constantly Trying to Understand. I really don’t understand anything - I can’t even count to ten in Swedish - but even MR P&P, who does understand a little, is struggling to make sense of it all. What are they thinking? What is the norm? Have we breached etiquette, whatever etiquette may be here? I need a crash course in being Swedish.
In the meantime I focus on the small victories, like a new-found addiction to cardamom buns, the fabulous Nordic-ness of the public transport system. Potatoes smothered in dill mayonnaise,
no less than three yarn stores (that I have found) in a town of just over 82K. And what a pretty town it is, too.
Old town in Lund, Sweden | Photo by E Alcocer at Pasta & Patchwork
SOCIAL LIFE
Small victories here too, amid a fair amount of missing our friends in Italy. I organised a playdate via a facebook group and, lo and behold, people turned up. The kids played, the mums chatted, and I felt sort of normal for a while.
Mr P&P played football with his new colleagues last week (and scored a goal, I must add) and I think he is becoming a firm fan of “fika”: a cross between a social get-together and a work meeting that involves lots of coffee, pastries and chatting. I’m so very, very tempted to start my own crochet fika. Would anyone care to join?
Life in Sweden: Crochet

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