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Moving to Sweden | Six months in

2/11/2016

 
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Six months in our new home, three months since my last update. We have slowed down, in many ways. Slowed down to continue finding our feet at our own, comfortable pace, but also because we've had to. Swedish winter will do that to you! The bureacratic palaver continues to grind its excrutiatingly slow path too, but I think we're nearly there. 

So. Swedish winter. 
LIFESTYLE
Wintry. Dark. Not as dark as in most of Sweden, of course (we are right in the south, on about the same latitude as Edinburgh). But still unbelievable dreary for much of it. Around the 21st of December, that most dismal of days, the light was creeping into view at around 9:30AM and disappearing again by 2:30PM. We started to feel like moles, fuzzy during the day but unable to sleep soundly at night.
January, then, was a godsend. As I've written about already, it was cold. Really, properly cold. With about 10 cm of snow (bucket loads more up north, apparently) and crisp blue skies.
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We did the Swedish thing: wrap up, buy a sled, hurtle down the only hill in 20 square miles (Sweden is quite flat). Next year we will do even better, and bring a winter barbeque, thermosses full of coffee and winter picnic blankets. Seriously, they do that, and the sausages smell amazing. 
And February? Well. We've tried to head out whenever possible, through breaks in the drizzle and sick bugs. 
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THE BEAN
Somebody turned three! He is doing so well, I'm pleased to say. Volatile, stubborn and cheeky, as freshly-minted three-year-olds are wont to be, but also carefree, happy and really funny.
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He has finally started to settle into preschool properly and comes home talking about his new best friend (a different one every month!). According to the teachers he understands Swedish very well now, though he's still reluctant to speak it. Not at home though: he takes great delight in teaching me all the words he knows in the most patronising manner, because he knows I have no idea what he's talking about. Like I said, cheeky. 
HOME
My little sanctuary, which is just as well because as a work-from-home mum I spend 90% of my time in it! A slightly impersonal rental it will always be, but we all feel at home and I can work comfortably when I need to. Four boxes left to unpack, which is clear progress on the seven from the last update. A few more flowers and indoor plant friends, to help us while away the time until the outdoors wakes up again. 
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WORK
As of 1st January I officially landed in Sweden, in that I kissed the Italian tax authorities goodbye with a flounce and a wave. Starting again here - getting residency, access to social services, registering as self-employed, opening a bank account - has taken WAY longer than we expected it would. I've lost count of the number of circles I've been sent in, and at one point I even started to miss the Italian's cavalier attitude to rules; when everyone knows they don't work, everyone tends to be a little more flexible of mind, a little more willing to apply "creativity". In Sweden, however, the rules DO work, which is great when you're in the system. It's getting there that has been the tricky part. I've tried to stay calm about it because as an EU citizen with a working partner and a roof over my head I can hardly complain, but I will still be glad when I am finally in a position to invoice my clients for all the work I have simply continued to do!
Mr P&P has been very busy, applying for funding and moving labs and generally being so helpful his colleagues give him chocolate cake (well one did, but it was the day before the Bean's birthday and he had requested... a chocolate cake! Win!)

SOCIAL LIFE
Not bad, not bad at all, especially considering the level of hibernation and insularity that Swedish winter seems to bring with it. There have been a few do's at Mr. P&P's work that we were all invited to and which have been a lot of fun. Like, curling! 
There was also one "drink whisky in the office kitchen until midnight" occassion. As you do (the Bean and I weren't invited to that, funnily enough). 
About a month ago I plucked up all the courage I could muster and attended an Instameet for crafters. 
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It was small, casual and really very friendly, but as the only non-Swedish speaker I caught myself feeling disoriented and intimidated. I did go away feeling happy and inspired though. Not that I didn't already know this, but as a new arrival anywhere - abroad or not - you HAVE to step out of your comfort zone sometimes. And I need to learn Swedish. 

Six months in. I think we're doing alright, really. I'm looking forward to more sunlight though. 
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Psst, have you read the news? As of 1 March I will be moving to a new blogging home! P&P will stay online, but I'll be writing about our Swedish adventure and much more besides on Emmy + LIEN. Hope to see you there! 
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clara link
2/11/2016 03:18:38 pm

Ha I just wrote a blog called Six Months Into My New Expat Life - great minds and all that :) I think our experiences have been very different mind you - not much snow here :)

Eline @ Pasta & Patchwork link
2/16/2016 07:49:25 pm

I know we moved at almost the same time, so whenever we reach one of these milestones over here I do think about you! Our experiences were always going to be quite different, weren't they :-)

Becky Brown link
2/11/2016 08:46:48 pm

So glad to hear that you've settled in well. Crazy to think about the amount of darkness you have in Winter. It's been so wet here in France recently but at least it's still light outside. I still have to use up huge amounts of energy to get me outside though, away from the warmth of the fire. I love the ease that kids have to pick up languages. I really really need to up my French this year, I think I need a bit of courage like you to get out there and join something French (there are too many English meet up round here!)

Eline @ Pasta & Patchwork link
2/16/2016 07:47:20 pm

I'm not so sure about courage on my part - I've met very few people here so far who can't speak astonishingly good English! There is very little to motivate me to learn Swedish, really. I'd like to though. Eventually!

FrenchVillage Jacqui link
2/11/2016 11:03:32 pm

Glad you are settling in ok, but I don't envy you the cold, dark winters. Lack of daylight is not my favourite. I prefer the cold crisp days of winter as at least the sun is usually out.

Eline @ Pasta & Patchworkq link
2/16/2016 07:50:44 pm

I prefer those winter days too, believe me! The darkness has been very tough to deal with, but at least the days are getting noticeably longer now.

Callie@ALittleMoreSouthern link
2/12/2016 01:39:46 am

Are you picking up more Swedish? I am slightly envious of the cold you're experiencing because I'm a bit over this heat we have.

Eline @ Pasta & Patchwork link
2/16/2016 07:53:52 pm

I'm really not picking up much! Just words here and there, but as everyone speaks such good English it's too easy to be lazy... But yes, the cold - I don't mind it after the horrendous heatwave we had in Italy last year!

Seychellesmama link
2/13/2016 05:17:56 pm

Okay so I am really feeling the need to come and visit you. I don't think Sweden could be much more different then here right now. The last month has been really tough weather wise, but obviously for all the opposite reasons to you guys!! It sounds so beautiful there. I love the idea of a snow bbq although light at 9:30 and getting dark at 2:30 is something I can not get my head around!!
Little bean is so cute, I love that he is your Swedish teacher, and clearly he loves that too!! Can't believe he's 3 now!! So pleased he's settling into school so well, you must be really happy with that too!
Thanks for sharing with #myexpatfamily

Eline @ Pasta & Patchwork link
2/16/2016 07:56:03 pm

I would love for you and your boys to come visit and play in the snow! Although there's been far too much mud and rain too... And I would definitely have to come and have a beach holiday with you guys in return ;-)
But yes, Bean - thank goodness he's settling in well, such a relief!

Fabiola Rodriguez link
2/14/2016 05:35:59 am

What an experience! I live in Mexico, so life could not be more different. The sun sets at 2:30 pm in December?? Honestly, I would probably die lol :D Your little guy seems to be adapting well. Kids are so amazing! Best wishes in your new life in Sweden!

Eline @ Pasta & Patchwork link
2/16/2016 07:58:28 pm

Thank you so much Fabiola! I kind of thought I would die at 2.30 sunsets too, but it's amazing what you can adapt to. Though I'll be glad when Spring finally arrives, that's for sure!

Emma Raphael link
2/28/2016 09:22:05 pm

Gosh, has it really been six months already? I think living in Scandinavia was the first time that I really really appreciated Spring. It just felt like spring x1000 after the long dark winter!


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