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Jet Lag and Kids: 6 coping strategies

9/4/2014

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You jet lagged. Kids jet lagged. You and Kids jet lagged. Whichever way you look at it, travel across time zones with small children in tow is no picnic. However, with our family spread all over the globe, it’s something the P&Pers have had to get used to, littlest included. So for better or worse, we’ve learned to pack in an hour, make airports fun, and cope with the dreaded jet lag. It’s our strategies for the latter than I’d like to share with you today.
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Airbus image credit: Axwel
I’m going on the assumption that jet lag is indeed about the house, along with stubbornly still-packed suitcases and take-away dinner cartons. Because you could have done something awfully clever and dedicated like move your kids’ bedtimes by 30 minutes each day until they got the destination time zone, before you even set off. But no, I’m going to assume that, like me, you weren’t that organised and have arrived well and truly floored.

1. Let everyone sleep when they want to
I know that the traditional advice for getting over jet lag is to force yourself to stay awake during the day, but I don’t think that’s realistic when you are also meant to be looking after Littles. As far as I’m concerned, the same principle as that of the newborn days applies: sleep when they sleep. Because for the first 2 to 3 days, you never know when they’ll be wide awake and want entertaining. The kids are also likely to be very, very tired from the excitement of the journey, so it makes no sense to keep them awake when their bodies and brains desperately need rest.
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Rocking at a party? Not so much.
2. Have meals at the correct time
Often, neither adults nor children get enough sleep and food during long-distance travel, so it’s normal for everyone to be starving for the first day after arrival. This makes it much easier to adapt to the destination time zone’s mealtimes than bedtimes. In fact, some studies have shown that not eating at all during travel, and then eating the correct meal immediately upon arrival (so, for example, eating lunch if you arrive at/around lunch time) is much more effective in resetting your body clock than trying to tinker with sleep patterns. Although getting your children to abstain from food for the duration of a journey probably isn’t a good idea (can you imagine the toddler  wrath of a missed snack!?), I do think it’s possible to use their extra hunger-levels to your advantage.

3. Don’t. Make. Plans.
For the first three days, you are going to feel awful. You are going to want to sleep during the day and be wide a-bloody-wake at 3AM. So why would you make any plans?? Instead, just take it easy for at least 48 hours and accept that everyone and everything else can wait. No-one (but you, possibly) will care if the suitcases are not unpacked, or if the floor isn’t clean. If there are people at your destination waiting (clamouring) to see you, ask them to come to you rather than you go to see them. And while you’re at it, explain you are dead on your feet and might just need to pop to bed for an hour, lovely as it is to catch up… They’ll understand.
If you have to go back to work immediately (ouch), try to avoid scheduling meetings or deadlines for the first few days, and have a to-do list ready before you leave so you don’t have to think too much when you get back.

4. Get help
If you can, get someone to take the children off your hands for at least a few hours on the first day, or make you dinner, or do the shopping for you. If this isn’t an option, try to plan ahead before you leave to make your life on arrival as simple as possible. Freeze some dinners or find out in advance where you are going to get your first few meals from, and have clean outfits for two days ready. Don’t return to a pile of dishes in the sink and no milk in the fridge at midnight…

5. Get out
One of the worst things about travelling by plane is being cooped up in a small space for hours. Add the over-enthusiastic and utterly unhealthy air conditioning, and you arrive feeling not only disoriented but also decidedly stale. The great outdoors is the perfect antidote so even if the temptation is to crawl onto the sofa, get out there. No matter what the weather. In fact, the windier the better, to blow out all the aches, pains and cobwebs. And if it’s the middle of the night and everyone is awake anyway? (Provided you know you’ll be safe) just head out for a torch-lit walk - the kids will love it. Then come back and feel naturally tired, rather than “I’ve just sat in a metal box for 10 hours and am going a little loopy” kind of tired.

6. Be patient

No matter how bad, jet lag usually begins to wear off after three days. So hang in there and make the most of the fact that everyone, even the normally-hyperactive toddler is a bit dopey, a bit snoozy, a bit cuddly… And if you end up having to watch cartoons with them at four in the morning, snuggled up under a blanket, is that really so bad?
Have you travelled long distance with children in tow? What are you best strategies for coping with a jet lagged family?

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9 Comments
Donna link
9/4/2014 04:33:52 pm

Great tips! We haven't ventured abroad yet but will bear this in mind when we go anywhere! x

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Merlinda Little link
9/4/2014 05:13:05 pm

Helpful tips! Though we havent really had a plane ride yet when I go home itll be 22 hours travel by plane so this will be helpful when I need to do that ride =) #brillblogposts

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Eline @ Pasta & Patchwork link
9/8/2014 03:59:09 am

22 hours! You'll be a veteran by the end of all that, when you eventually do it ;-)

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Honest Mum link
9/6/2014 05:10:19 am

Love this post, we are scared to fly long haul although husband's folks live in SA and I want to go to Cali with the kids as they are useless on long flights. Greece was just bearable but tough. The eldest (4) is fine but my nearly 1 year old is a handful! Fab tips by the way! Thanks for linking up to #brilliantblogposts

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Eline @ Pasta & Patchwork link
9/8/2014 04:02:38 am

Long haul flights are a real challenge for Littles, I don't blame you for not daring to do them! Night flights are a good option but even so, I'm hoping not to need my own advice again for another couple of years...

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Carie link
9/8/2014 08:02:48 am

I don't think we've ever travelled more than one, possibly two time zones with any of our little ones but the cooped up feelings I suspect apply just as much to long car journeys as plane trips - you just keep telling yourself it will pass!

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Eline @ Pasta & Patchwork link
9/9/2014 02:49:11 am

I know, I know - when you're in the thick of it, it seems never-ending, but it's just a blip really. One week on and we're all more or less fighting fit again!

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MummyTravels link
9/12/2014 08:28:37 am

Great tips - jetlag has actually been less bad than I'd feared with my daughter on our three long-haul trips. I wondered if it's because she's young enough (now just two) that if it's dark, she's happier to sleep, so after a first broken night her body clock seems to reset. Fingers crossed she doesn't grow out of it!

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Eline @ Pasta & Patchwork link
9/17/2014 04:05:25 am

We've found that with our son too (now 20 months). He just seems to cope with it better than we do. I sincerely hope that won't change any time soon either!

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